Demi Lovato says she is a 'new person with a new life' after revealing that she relapsed during sobriety
Callie Ahlgrim Jun. 25, 2018, 9:52 AM
On June 21, Demi Lovato released a new song called "Sober."Lovato's lyrics allude to her alcoholism and imply that she has recently relapsed, despite celebrating six years of sobriety in March."To the ones who never left me / We've been down this road before / I'm so sorry, I'm not sober anymore," she sings.The song could also be about her past.Fans have flooded Twitter with messages of support and are taking the opportunity to stress that, for many, relapse is a part of recovery.She performed the song live for the first time on June 24 and shared a clip on Twitter, writing that she took the stage as "a new person with a new life."
—Demi Lovato (@ddlovato) May 29, 2018
—Demi Lovato (@ddlovato) May 29, 2018
On Thursday, June 21, Lovato dropped a surprise track called "Sober" and paired it with a lyric video on YouTube. The video opens with a scene that appears to show Lovato's perspective after waking up hungover — then flashing back to a time in her life when she was actively using drugs and drinking alcohol.
"Wake me when the shakes are gone / And the cold sweats disappear / Call me when it's over / And myself has reappeared," she sings. "To the ones who never left me / We've been down this road before / I'm so sorry, I'm not sober anymore."
She also uploaded a clip to Twitter, accompanied by the familiar sentiment: "My truth."
—Demi Lovato (@ddlovato) June 21, 2018
She has offered no further explanation or context. But it seems safe to assume, given her reputation for honesty and openness, that Lovato wrote the revealing song about a recent relapse — despite celebrating six years of sobriety in March.
The revelation comes after a fan accused Lovato of breaking her sobriety in April, when it appeared that the "Sorry Not Sorry" songstress had Photoshopped a drink out of her hand. At the time, Lovato said that it was Red Bull but also added, "I don't have to defend anything."
"Sober" is clearly a meditation on Lovato's feelings of guilt.
In the second verse of "Sober," the former Disney Channel star laments that she wants to be a role model, but she's "only human." Lovato expressed a similar sentiment in an April interview with INSIDER.
"There's definitely pressure. There's pressure to maintain this role as kind of the poster child for recovery," she told INSIDER. "But it also holds me accountable. So it's a blessing. It doesn't feel like a burden by any means but it does help me stay accountable for my actions today."
Indeed, it's clear from the lyrics that Lovato feels a sense of responsibility and guilt following her relapse.
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"Momma, I'm so sorry I'm not sober anymore / And daddy, please forgive me for the drinks spilled on the floor," she sings. "And I'm sorry for the fans I lost / Who watched me fall again." At the end of the song, Lovato explicitly promises to "get help."
Lovato said she is " a new person with a new life" after performing the song on June 24.
During a stop on her "Tell Me You Love Me" world tour in Lisbon, Portugal, Lovato appeared emotional as she performed the piano ballad live for the first time.
The singer shared a clip of the performance on Twitter, which sees the crowd showing its support by singing along and lighting up the arena with phone flashlights. When Lovato sang the lyric, "I'm sorry to the fans I lost," the crowd began to cheer and Lovato got audibly choked up.
"Tonight I took the stage, a new person with a new life. Thank you to everyone who has supported me throughout this journey. It will never be forgotten," she wrote.
—Demi Lovato (@ddlovato) June 24, 2018
Lovato also used her Instagram story to debut a new tattoo reading "free" on her finger, which she seems to have gotten the day after the song's release.
Fans have rushed to support Lovato and say thank you for being open about her struggles.
Many pointed out the bravery it must have taken to release the song, especially considering Lovato's public embrace of sobriety.
angel@notearslovatoIt’s so fucking hard to admit a relapse especially to millions of people that look up to you daily. So if any of you are gonna give Demi shit for this, please just leave the fandom now because she needs the real and supportive lovatics in this time 88110:50 AM - Jun 21, 2018Twitter Ads info and privacy
supreme lovatics LOVES DEMI@supremelovatics · Jun 21, 2018Thinking about how many people tell Demi her sobriety saved their lives and how hard it was to release this song bc she’s going to feel like now her fans won’t stay sober and will relapse just bc she did. We need to think about the things we say to Demi, the pressure to be
supreme lovatics LOVES DEMI@supremelovaticsPerfect that some fans put on her. It makes it 10x harder for her to be honest. Get sober and help for yourself and don’t make Demi feel like she’s what’s holding you together. Take the pressure to be perfect off of her. 6911:14 AM - Jun 21, 2018Twitter Ads info and privacy
Some fans who have had similar experiences with addiction and sobriety also expressed gratitude that Lovato is honest about her ups and downs.